More from the time in the hospital:
Saturday, February 16, 2008 10:20 PM, CST
Our days are quickly passing with the trips up to St. John's. Thursday night we made our stay short since we were both so tired from Wednesday night. We gave Luke and Brooke baths, kisses, and then left for home. (Zach's body temperature wasn't high enough for us to get him out and bathe him.)
Friday night, we went out to eat for Valentine's Day and then spent a few hours with the triplets. We did a quick wipe down for baths and then I held Zach while Chad held Luke. It was good to see Zach again after not being able to hold him due to his body temperature. Brooke did very well with her bath and didn't even pitch a fit!!! We stayed much later than we thought we would and didn't get home until mid-night.
Today was a quick day. We slept in, did some work around the house and then made our way back to the hospital with my mom and dad. We were there in time to hold all three babies while they were being fed. I held Luke, grandma Bren held Zach, and grandpa Wes held Brooke. While I was holding Luke, Chad got nominated for diaper patrol with Zach. Too bad, no surprises were left for him! Chad gave up his turn for holding tonight and probably won't let that happen again! :)
Each baby is doing well. They have tested their billy reuben counts and so far, all are within a "good" range. They are all back up to their birth weights after a full week and we are very thankful for that. Their feedings have increased from 3.5 mils to 7 and hopefully they will all be digesting their food normally and stay at the higher feeding level and gain more weight. The nurses did have to move their IVs again and thank goodness, Luke's is gone from his head! We were told today that they could possibly remove them altogether in the next few days. (We're keeping our fingers crossed for that!) A few less tubes to work around would be wonderful.
We are going back tomorrow to spend the afternoon and praying for more of the same news tomorrow. We would again like to thank everyone for their prayers -they truly seem to help us through and the babies are doing awesome.
Sunday, February 17, 2008 8:03 PM, CST
We had another good day today! When we got to the hospital, the nurse told us that they had upped their feedings again! More food - more weight gained! :) As they continually up their feedings, the closer we get to removing their IVs.
Chad kangarooed Zach, who wiggled his way into Chad's shirt and down his stomach- was quite funny! I had Brooke who was very quiet and content. We stayed like that for a long time and then decided to head home.
More trips up this week and hopefully another quiet one with more good news. I'll be sure to update!
Monday, February 18, 2008 11:23 PM, CST
My mom and I went up to the hospital today to see Luke, Zach, and Brooke. Grandma and Brooke bonded today. Brooke heard about Goldilocks and the three bears over and over again! She was sleeping soundly after all that!
Luke had already started his feeding and it is best not to disturb them when they are trying to digest their food, so I held Zach today. He wasn't hard to entertain either. Once they put him on my chest, he was sound asleep and stayed that way the entire time.
I called up to the NICU around 10p.m. to see how the rest of the afternoon/evening went. Their nurse tonight told me that they had a good day overall. They've upped their feedings to 12 mils and if all do well, they will be upped again to 14 (around mid-night). At 14 mils, they will also drop their IVs down a notch (closer to getting them removed). She also said she weighed the boys tonight and Luke weighs 3 lbs 3.5 ounces!!! Zach is right behind him at 3 lbs 3.4 ounces!!! Yesterday, Brooke weighed 3 lbs 4 ounces so we are assuming her weight is increasing as well!
Tomorrow we are going back with Kathy and Dennis and hoping that they get a chance to hold someone! Until then....
Tuesday, February 19, 2008 11:24 PM, CST
Our goal for this evening was to make sure Kathy and Dennis got a chance to hold one of the triplets. We planned our night to give baths and then hold while they were feeding... everything went as planned until we reached the NICU.
We found out minutes after arriving that Luke, Zach, and Brooke were getting a new address! It took quite a long time for them to unhook everything and make the trek, but eventually all three were move successfully to NICU South! The location is truly all that changed, but being in the south unit is a plus because that is where the babies that are less critical call home.
After they were all adjusted, Mawmaw got to hold Luke for the first time and Pawpaw held Zach. Luke's oxygen level wasn't on target which meant the bonding session didn't last as long as we'd hoped. We are just happy that they finally got to visit with each other!
All three are still doing well and their feedings have increased again. Zach is still regulating his own body temperature. Luke's IV came out again and they were trying to get a new one in while we were there. (We are still praying for those things to be gone!!!) Brooke was just hanging out and continues to get stronger each day.
Thursday, February 21, 2008 7:46 AM, CST
Chad and I were able to hold Luke and Zach last night while we were visiting. We both kangarooed with the boys. As the nurse was helping me get Luke situated on my chest, he found my hand and grabbed my finger. He wrapped his little fingers around mine and stayed like that most of the time we were together. It was enough to melt my heart!
When my time was up, I turned to see Chad and Zach taking a nap together. Talk about peaceful! I was mush by that time!!! :)
No one was weighed while we were there, but their weights from Tuesday had Luke and Zach both weighing 3 lbs 4 ounces and Brooke at 3 lbs 7 ounces. All three are now regulating their own body temperatures and doing well with that. Their feedings have increased to 22 mils every three hours and that means if an IV were to come out now, it would stay out. (Zach's IV was out last night already.)
I was planning on spending my day today at the hospital with the triplets, but the weather ruined that plan! I have a follow up appointment tomorrow with my dr so Chad and I are planning on making an afternoon of it with all three!
Monday, February 25, 2008 10:04 AM, CST
My doctor's appointment on Friday went well. I am free to drive! But...still have to take it easy when it comes to house work!!! ;)
Chad and I spent the afternoon and early evening with the kids. They all had their IVs removed - YEA!!! Luke and Brooke had their oxygen removed and they were getting ready to remove Zach's. The nurse also told us that we were free to bring clothes to dress them in. The washing machine and dryer were running like crazy after we got home - I couldn't wait to put some clothes on them!!!
Saturday we went up with my mom and dad. We gave all three baths and dressed them. It was so wonderful not to have wires everywhere. They still have their feeding tubes and the leads that connect them to the monitors, but that feels like nothing to us! (The only thing to be removed now is the feeding tube and it will be awhile for that.)
Grandma held Luke, Chad kangarooed with Zach, and Grandpa held Brooke. Brooke was listening to Grandpa tell stories and I think she already has him wrapped around her finger. A few times, she gave him an open mouthed smile and laughed at his jokes!
At one point the nurse took all three babies and put them in Chad's arms. HOLY COW - - - we'd been holding one at a time and then to see all three together - - - kind of brought reality home! :) (I don't think Chad could have been happier.)
Chad had to work on Sunday so we went up later in the afternoon and were able to give baths to Luke and Zach. Zach didn't want much to do with his bath either night and let us know about it. He is also the one who surprises me each time I change his diaper! Chad laughs and thinks he is cool because they've never done that to him, but people tell me he'll get his fair share in too!!!
Chad kangarooed with Luke and I got to hold both Zach and Brooke. It was awesome to finally see them side by side for a long period of time.
The past two weeks, we've been trying to look for differences in the boys. We know there are differences, we just can't seem to pinpoint one way to tell them apart. As long as no one takes their name tags off their beds, we'll be okay. If not, we're in trouble!
Everything else seems to be going well. They are watching Brooke. She has been spitting up some of her food and vitamins. (I'd probably spit those up too!) They are not sure if she has reflux or if something is not agreeing with her, but as long as she doesn't lose weight, all they do is monitor her. Zach and Luke had high temps on Saturday throughout the night. After a blood count check, they decided to turn down their beds - they were probably just too hot!
We're going back again tonight to see all of them, and counting the hours until that time!
Wednesday, February 27, 2008 12:04 PM, CST
On Tuesday, Kathy and I went up in the early afternoon to see the triplets. MaMa held Luke for well over 2 hours and never complained once!!! ;) I kangarooed with both Zach and Brooke in that same time frame.
We ate dinner in the cafeteria and by the time we were coming back upstairs, Dennis and Chad were there. We gave Luke and Brooke each baths. Luke let us know that his little lungs are getting stronger - he really is laid back for the most part, he just hates getting a bath! And...Miss Brooke who we thought had an attitude has really calmed down and seems to just take it all in. That's not to say she doesn't make a peep, she does, she's just not as vocal as she was a first.
Chad kangarooed Luke, PaPa held Brooke, and MaMa got to hold Zach for the first time! It was a good day - a long one, but good!!!
Everyone is still doing well. Brooke's feedings have increased to every two hours, but decreased just a litting in the amount she is getting. They think this is helping her out and she isn't spitting up as much. Luke weighed in last night at 3 lbs 9.5 oz. Zach was 3 lbs 8.7 oz and Brooke was 3 lbs 10.6 oz! Each of them are gaining weight on target. Only a few more ounces until we hit four pounds! (One goal we have is: by the time they are 4 lbs - we want them to fully regulate their own temperatures so they can be taken out of the isolettes.)
Another visit tonight...
Sunday, March 2, 2008 8:47 PM, CST
Many new things to report on...
Thursday evening Chad and I were able to give Luke, Zach, and Brooke, their first real baths! We dunked them in their little tubs and they all really seemed to enjoy it. (We decided we need to build up our endurance though!) After bath time, we held all three! I got to kangaroo with both Luke and Zach. I have to wonder how they ALL fit in me just three weeks ago! It is still so amazing to think about that and what a miracle they are!!!
Friday my mom and I spent the afternoon up at the hospital holding all three. We weren't able to do too much with them besides holding, but it was still nice to be there with them. Grandma held Zach for awhile and Luke too. I got to kangaroo with Brooke who seemed as if she didn't have a care in the world!
Saturday was another quick visit and then we were off to our niece, Maggie's birthday party. I called up to the hospital to see how they were doing that night and was told that they were all out of the isolettes!
We were both excited to get to the hospital today to see them in real beds and not in the plastic houses they had been in! They all looked so warm and cozy in their new beds and we were thrilled to be looking at them clearly and not through plastic.
We were told their weights again. Luke weighs 3 lbs 14.7 ounces and Zach is at 3 lbs, 14 ounces. Miss Brooke decided to show both boys up by reaching the 4 pound marker first!!!
We held Zach and Brooke during their feedings today. Gave kisses to Luke and told them all we'd see them again tomorrow!
Monday, March 3, 2008 10:53 PM, CST
We made the journey to the hospital again tonight even though the weather was iffy. We were there to weigh Zach and Brooke and give them each their baths. Zach has bypassed Brooke in weight! (We'll see how long he can hold that title!) Brooke weighed 4 lbs 1.2 ounces and Zach was 4 lbs. 1.3 ounces!! He better keep eating to outdo his sister! :)
I held Luke for awhile, but with not knowing what the weather was like outside, we decided to cut our visit short and leave a little earlier. It was kisses and then we were heading home.
We are hoping to make it back again tomorrow night to try a bottle feeding! We're making progress!!!
Friday, March 7, 2008 10:52 AM, CST
Chad and I didn't make it to the hospital on Tuesday. We decided not to brave the snow storm. (And...we had a friend who forbid us to drive in it since she was having such a hard time getting home in it!) We ended up calling the NICU before bed and were told that they all had their first bottle!!! Zach and Brooke drank a little but were wore out. Luke drank all of his and let out a hefty burp! (We'll see if that was beginner's luck or if he is going to be a good eater.)
Wedesday, Kathy and I went to see the triplets in the afternoon. I attended a Premie Development class while Kathy held the babies. When I got back to the NICU, I was able to feed Brooke her bottle. She and I did very well for it being the first time together!
We ate dinner and then I was off to a CPR class. By the time I was finished, Chad and Dennis were there ready to hold. Dennis held Brooke and Chad gave Luke his bottle. (Luke didn't do as well as the first time, but he was happy Dad was feeding him!) I fed Zach his bottle, we tucked them all in, and then we headed home.
Thursday, I went to the hospital for the first time by myself. I met with a nurse who taught me how to do infant massage with Brooke. It relaxed her so much, we weren't able to finish due to her filling her diaper!!! (We'll try again next week!)
While I was there I was able to bottle feed each baby and bond with them! It is so amazing to see them changing. They are becoming so much more alert and aware of things around them.
We are watching a little infection Luke has on his face, but we've been told it isn't anything serious so medicine and baths will clear it up. Luke and Zach were right at 4 lbs 2 ounces the last time they were weighed. Brooke was 4 lbs 5 ounces and still gaining!
Thank goodness it is the weekend and we will be able to spend more time with them!!!
Sunday, March 9, 2008 11:11 PM, CDT
On Friday, we went up earlier than normal and got to spend more time with the triplets. We talked to a dr who explained some things to us, we talked about baptism, and some other events dealing with time and coming home. They really don't have a definite answer except ... as long as they are doing well it will be sooner rather than later.
Saturday we went up and gave them each their baths, held them for awhile, and then left. It had been a long day with having a shower and then with the time changing, we needed to catch up on some sleep (that we'll probably never get again!).
Today, we went up with my mom (my dad has a cold). We spoke to a dr again and were informed that their feedings have increased and the bottles can be given as much as possible instead of only once a day! That was great news to our ears - moving closer to coming home! Chad fed Luke his bottle and he did very well. I "tried" to give Zach his bottle but he wanted to play with it and faked being tired. When we gave up and decided to feed him through the feeding tube, he smiled at us. Ha - he thought he had us fooled - next time we'll know better! Grandma Bren got to feed Brooke, but .... not before she had to change a rather stinky diaper! Oh...did that make Chad and I laugh. She actually changed two diapers for Brooke. While she was feeding her, Brooke decided to go again! It was great. Chad told Gma Bren that she is hired when they come home! :)
We asked about height and weight again - We are thinking that the premie clothes are going to be outgrown soon! Luke is now 17 inches, an inch longer than at birth, and he weighs 4 lbs 8 ounces. Brooke weighs 4 lbs 7 ounces and is 17 inches long - 3/4 in longer. Finally...the stud for the day was Zach. He weighs a whopping 4 lbs 11 ounces and is 17.5 inches long, 2.25 inches longer than at birth. Someone didn't want to be left behind!!!
Hopefully we will have another uneventful "growing" week.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008 8:02 AM, CDT
Well...I learned rather quickly not to wish for a quiet week!
Last Monday we received a phone call from the hospital around 11:30 saying Brooke was severely anemic and needed a blood transfusion. Chad and I rushed to the hospital to talk to the drs. We saw the hematologist around 6:00p.m. He told us the plan was to transfuse blood and plasma to her to raise her counts. He was also going to order a blood test that was going to be sent to Wisconsin for further testing.
Tuesday, I spent the day with the triplets. I was there at 9:30 to do a massage with Luke! He was so limp and relaxed afterwards; I was ready to get one too!!! I was able to feed each baby and do their diaper changes all day. Chad got there around 5, we went to grab a bite to eat and then we met with the hematologist again. Brooke's blood levels weren't as high as they had hoped so another transfusion was ordered. Chad looked so tired and I was tired after being there all day so we didn't stay late that night. I did whisper a message to Zach before we left. I told him...Luke got the attention last week with the staph infection and now Brooke was getting the attention with her anemia. If he wanted attention from us, the best way to get it would be to get home!!! (I think he listened!)
Wednesday, Chad and I went up in the evening, did the feedings and again headed home. By this time, Brooke had 3 transfusions of packed red blood cells and 2 plasma transfusions. We were hoping and praying her counts would be better by the weekend and the transfusions wouldn't have to take place any longer.
Thursday, Kathy and I spent the afternoon with Luke, Zach, and Brooke. We were told that Brooke's blood counts were stable and that she would be retested again on Friday.
Friday morning, my mom and I headed up to the hospital. My mom gave blood for Brooke (in case it was needed), and I visited with the babies. I fed Luke and changed Zach's diaper, and by that time, my mom was finished and we were off. We made a stop at Babies R Us and then went to pick up the furniture for the nursery! We unloaded everything at home and then Chad and I went back up to the hospital to introduce Luke, Zach, and Brooke to Aunt Angie and Uncle Bryon! They were there to witness our bath time routine and to see them wide eyed and ready to eat!!!
Saturday, we went back up with my parents. We again did the baths and then fed them. My dad got to feed Luke his bottle! :) Chad fed Zach and my mom fed Brooke. The hematologist called the hospital to talk to us and basically told us that Brooke's bloodwork came back and that the tests were negative. He is going to continue to monitor her counts and going to inform the pediatrician of the events from the week, but other than that if her numbers stayed stable, nothing else was needed at that time! What great news to our ears!!! By that time, it was 10 and we were ready to come home.
Sunday afternoon, we headed to the hospital to let the triplets meet Uncle Blake and Aunt Sara. While we were there, Luke finished his entire bottle - a first!!! I fed Zach and he finished his as well. Chad was feeding Brooke and I made an off hand remark about her finishing her bottle. I mentioned that it had never been done that all three had finished their feedings at one time and if that happened, we would take Blake and Sara out to eat. I should have never opened my mouth!!! :)
Finally, (I've learned not to wait a week to update the journal - this is taking forever!) last night while we were visiting with Kathy and Dennis, we got to introduce Uncle Brad and Aunt Beth to the triplets. Cousins, Makenna and Maggie were able to "see" from the windows. We had bath time and feedings while they were there visiting.
Brooke's heplock from the transfusions was taken out! Luke is 18.25 inches long and weighs 5 pounds 5 ounces. Zach is also 18.25 inches long and weighs 5 pounds 7 ouncss. Brooke is right behind them at 18 inches long and 5 pounds 2 ounces! They are all doing very well and we are looking forward to having them home with us.